Are you in pain or conflict? Okay. But that does not mean that you are not completely loved. The idea that being in pain cuts you off from love is an idea that you have imposed on the situation. In truth, nothing cuts you off from love, save your own beliefs. And that is why you are in pain in the first place. You are in pain because you think and feel that you have been cut off from love.
You invert the truth of the situation. You made a cause an effect and effect a cause. That is your fear in action.
Understand this so that you can see beyond it. Let your awareness deepen. See your whole ego drama for what it is.